I am sitting here on my cluttered bed in Saigon as I take a short break from the seemingly impossible task of fitting 3 suitcases worth of luggage into 2. Throw in a few delicate gifts from my students and you've got a very fragile game of Tetris. All I can do is wish for my mom's help as I sit here pondering whether my clothes have indeed multiplied or my suitcase has amazingly shrunk.
As you can probably gather from my cheesy title, this is my last day in Vietnam. Two months ago I greeted Vietnam with a smile and eyes wide with eagerness, but tonight, at 11:50pm, I will bid this nation adieu. Two months ago I was eating Pho for the first time around a crowded table as we all awkwardly tried to get to know each other, but tonight I will go to the airport surrounded by the very good friends I have made in Vietnam. Two months ago, I was just beginning my summer and could hardly even imagine getting to the end, but tonight I will reach the conclusion of my adventure.
We left Quang Tri in a flood of tears. After the Culture Show on Sunday night, the waterworks had started. Kids clung to us like barnacles, refusing to ever let go. After spending about an hour telling our students how proud we are of them, especially Sang who overcome her shyness to perform a beautiful solo at the show, and our students reiterating how they will never forget us, it was time for us to say goodbye for the night. The adorableness of these kids hit us all hard and I think I speak for most of us when I say we were struggling to hold back tears as well.
On Monday, we had a lot of prepping to do before we left Quang Tri, so we were running around like chickens with our heads cut off, but amid the commotion the students overran our guesthouse trying to say their last goodbyes. I will always remember Nhuyuen's face as she asked me in the cutest broken English if I would be her brother, or Hien's rubbed-red eyes as she made me pinky swear to come back to Vietnam and see her. Crying children is definitely one of the most heartbreaking things in the world. As our bus pulled away, the best any of us could do was to not look, in fear of being pushed over the edge.
And saying goodbye by to our roommates was another event filled with lasting hugs and crying people. The scene could have come straight from a movie as we stood on a train platform, saying goodbye as we waited for a night train to Saigon. Many roommates gave us departing gifts. Phuc gave me an awesome tie, Cash McCracken style, Khanh armed Bryn with engraved nunchucks, Hung surprised Justin with a 16ft fishing pole (collapsible of course), and Vui satisfied Corinne's love of peanut butter with home roasted peanuts. For many of us "See you again" or "I will return to Vietnam" will be empty promises, but I think many of us will do the best we can to come back here now that we have made great, life long friendships.
So after 8 weeks of teaching English, building a fence, two playgrounds, and renovating three schools, all that is left to do is survive one last flight, finally taking me home.
So thats all I got. As much as I would like to write more, my life in America is far less interesting than the past two months I have had here. So thanks to everyone who has been keeping up with my blog this summer, and those who haven't, you are dead to me... For anyone who is thinking about travelling to Vietnam in the future, I am now an expert on the country so please please please email me at ngbalk@gmail.com. I have now traveled to most places in this country that tourists would go, and I have friends in most major cities who are extremely hospitable and, more importantly, good at English.
See you State-side,
Nick
Thursday, August 9, 2012
Saturday, August 4, 2012
Finishing Strong
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On Monday morning, about 4 days from now, I will be sitting on yet another 24 hour train ride Saigon bound, relegating the community in Quang Tri and all of the experiences here to my memory. But I am not yet sad because I know that this last week will certainly be one of the best. DukeEngage is going to finish strong.
Now this is the Vietnam I see in the movies! |
We're going in! |
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So this week is very exciting in Quang Tri because the Duke Engage Soccer Tournament begins. Justin and Vu did a great job planning this tournament, so we have 18 teams and nearly 150 people participating! The tournament is divided into a secondary school division and a high school division (although somehow that highschool division has a ringer team of 30 year old men...). The first day was a huge success and completely shattered our modest expectations for this tournament. In addition to the teams, many more came just to watch. The stadium was alive and buzzing with energy. Many people are saying this is the biggest soccer tournament ever held in Quang Tri, so the stakes are very high. Whether the players are motivated by supreme honor and glory or the prizes we are not sure, but the games are extremely competitive and quite rough indeed. With Vu keeping the game under control at center referee and Justin and I trying our hand at linesman, we make up an unstoppable force of order and discipline that keeps the older games running smoothly. I will say that being a linesman is harder than it looks and it took Justin and I a little getting used to. "Point in the direction the ball is going" is a lot easier said then done, especially when shoeless legs are flailing simultaneously towards the ball. The conditions in which these men play would never fly under the almighty hammers of legendary yellow card wielding, striped shirt donning, whistle tooting Piedmont referees like Steve Schub and Alan Kneckley. Shoeless, 1 shoe, socks, anything goes for these guys. Regardless of their equipment, the older group plays at a very high skill level. The quickness and ball control I see from some players rivals even some of the wettest in the BSAL. Perhaps even the illustrious Nikolai Littleton.
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This Vietnamese version of the "Dream Team" is taking our soccer tournament by storm. |
We have a very awesome week planned for our last week of teaching. Wednesday was a scavenger that went extremely well. For 45 minutes, 5 teams of roughly 6 students scrambled around Quang Tri town trying to do things like take a picture with a cow, sing "Head Shoulder Knees and Toes" in the market, and spell out vocabulary words with their bodies. My team heroically earned 2nd place behind An's unbelievable 1st place finish. Other classes practiced songs and dances and a couple even came together to make ice cream Ms. Rohmer's-chemistry-class style. Today we are having a final party with tons of fruit, drinks, and other treats. We plan to give each of our students a picture of our class with our best wishes included. I think its going to be an awesome day and our students are very excited. Friday is a "Field Day" which Corinne has taken the reigns on. With nearly 200 students, we will play American games such as Tug-of-War, Relay Race, and Capture the Flag. I am confident everyone will have a great time and all will go well.
I may or may not have mentioned the "Culture Show", but on Sunday the CET- DukeEngage group will perform a 2 hour long show which we have been preparing every since we arrived in Quang Tri under the strict whips of Chandra Swanson, Trang and choreographer extraordinaire Divya Taneja. So tonight we have rehearsal to get everything fine tuned (hopefully) and tomorrow we must perform a private show to the local censorship board or something like that. Not sure if my pole dancing act is gonna fly, but we will soon find out. Videos will be taken and posted, so hold tight and get ready for the show of a generation. Vietnam's Got Talent should look no further because we are about to blow your face masks off.
See you in a week,
Nick
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